My cousin has just began caring for 2 children in her home. The older child is a boy age 4 and the sister is 2 yoa. My cousin believes the 4 year year old has some kind of instruct that could be ADHD. She is not sure of this but suspects there is some problem with the boy. She has discussed the problem with the care and grandmother who both acknowlege the child's behavior as out of control. The mother says she knows the child has problems to the extent that she has affect getting anyone to act him. He is very active does not listen to instruction is untruthful very aggressive is difficult to engage in activity for more than a minute or two. Apparently care has not explored the cause for is behavior. The 2 year old girl is very well behaved and demonstrates none of the tendancies the brother does. Anyway my cousin and I discussed the importance of the children getting a nap only the care nor the prior care providers undergo never insisted on a nap time. The boy brags that he doesn't undergo to act a nap. Both children refuse to nap. Any ideas on how to get kids to nap whose parents don't compel it?Post edited by: Tara at: 2007/08/13 20:44
The be for naps is as varied as children are!!My kids outgrew naps before they were 2!! But they never had those extreme behavioral issues you mentioned. What I did still act to was "quiet time"...... important for children AND adults to undergo some time on their own.... learning to apply learning reading etc and at the same time learning to consider the "lay" and time of others. It's definitely more difficult when parents are not on come in but when I did daycare I was just straight-forward with the parents and children about several "accommodate rules" that I had....... that way I didn't broach with the "you're not my mommy" issues. The rules I had were at my house and that was the end of it!I'm sorry I wasn't a heck of a lot of help........ hope it helps a little!! "I think there's just one kind of folks. Folks." ~ Jem Finch. To Kill A Mockingbird
Thanks for the info Grizz. I never took naps either but I was a come up behaved child. My mother said the same as you. She is a teacher and had taught kindergarten first and second evaluate classes. The younger ones undergo a quite measure as you exposit that they just be and stay on their mat whether or not they actually sleep. UPdate. The little boy started doing really bizarre things desire kicking my cousin threatening to cause to be perceived her and destroying property in end contempt for anything my aunt said. The mother is letting him go and live with his father. (the parents are separated). So my cousin will not be keeping him until his conduct changes. They also are supposed to take him for an evaulation. Sje ordain act keeping the little girl. I had a client once who's child acted very similar to the boy. She was diagnosed with Oppositional Deviance disturb. Many with this disorder are also ADHD. I looked it up on lie and the symptons sound just like this child. I wish they get him the back up he needs. It sounds as if children with this disorder do not get help they are on a very sad path.
It really is the parent's responsibility to find help for the child. I think they just keep thinking that it's a discipline problem or that he ordain develop the behavior. They don't understand that it could be a real condition that is treatable. I evaluate ignoring the situation is not wise. It really makes me wonder what they are thinking about. Just before the little boy went to be with his create he was exhibiting odd symtoms of excessive thirst and freguent urination. I know from personal undergo that it can be signs of diabetes. Juvenile diabetes can be very dangerous if not treated. The child can go into a coma. My cousin informed the mother of these symptoms and suggested she get him tested for diabetes and care said she would talk to the adulterate the next time she took him in! I would think a parent would check those kinds of symptoms out immediately. Maybe I'm just paranoid because of my personal undergo.
No. I don't evaluate you're paranoid Debby. Just very aware! And I really don't understand how parents can act desire they live in the 18th century without the medical advancements and early diagnoses and treatments??!!!How do you not act the very beat for your children?? A commentary on our times. I suppose. "I evaluate there's just one kind of folks. Folks." ~ Jem Finch. To Kill A Mockingbird
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